A Professional's Advice on Selecting the Wedding Ceremony Music
Part 1



I am very happy to invite you to listen to the advice from a professional who has performed wedding ceremony music for years, Mr. Ralph Lecessi.

Wedding Bells and Sounds
A Guide to Ceremony Music

by Ralph Lecessi

You stand in the foyer of your church in your wedding dress. You watch the regal procession of your wedding party down the main aisle of your church. Now it is your turn to begin your climactic walk. Your guests stand facing you, eagerly awaiting your entrance. You take the first step, but WAIT! Where's the music!

Could you imagine walking down the aisle to nothing but the sound of your own heart beating? This example illustrates the importance of music to your wedding ceremony. "No other single element of your celebration has the power to move your guests and engage the emotions of all in attendance the way beautiful music does"[1]. In this article I discuss music for each part of the wedding ceremony, first by describing the role of music, and then by recommending selections that most successfully accomplish it. For a comprehensive resource on ceremony music selections, please consult the Ceremony Music Resource Page.

ESTABLISHING MOOD - YOUR PRELUDE

The Prelude is an interval of music starting 20 to 30 minutes prior to your ceremony. During the Prelude, your music provider establishes the mood for your wedding. The choice of appropriate mood is entirely up to you, and you may use vocal or instrumental music to create it. A string ensemble playing violin concertos by Vivaldi will create an elegant mood. An organist playing liturgical selections will create a religious mood symbolizing the importance of this day. A vocalist singing contemporary love ballads will create a romantic mood. Or perhaps, you may desire ethnic selections, creating a variety of different moods.

One general rule applies to your Prelude selections: the music should not be dance oriented, and should be played at a volume that creates suitable background for prayer, reflection, and light conversation. Each selection should be approved by your musical director or officiant.

The following works are very effective in creating various moods:

ELEGANT

  • Violin Concerto #8 (Vivaldi) Rondo (Mozart)
  • Air (from The Water Music - Handel)
  • Concerto #1 (from The Four Seasons,Spring -Vivaldi)

RELIGIOUS

  • Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring (Bach)
  • Largo (from Xerxes - Handel)
  • God is my Shepherd (Antoni Dvorak)

FESTIVE/JOYOUS

  • Brandenburg Concerto #2 (Bach)
  • Hornpipe in D (from The Water Music - Handel)
  • Rondo for Flute and Orchestra (Mozart)

ROMANTIC

  • One Hand, One Heart (from West Side Story - Sondheim/Bernstein)
  • All I Ask of You (from Phantom of the Opera - Webber)
  • Pavane (Faure)
  • Greensleeves (Traditional)
While the Prelude music plays, the ushers escort your guests to their seats. The groom's mother, father, and finally the bride's mother are the last people escorted to their seats. I have found that playing a majestic classical work with a quick tempo can dramatically capture the guests' attention and announce the beginning of the wedding ceremony. Trumpet Voluntary (Clarke) or Trumpet Tune and Air (Purcell) are ideal choices, due to their strong march rhythms. The music should continue until the aisle carpet has been unrolled. The Processional may now begin.

SETTING THE PACE - THE PROCESSIONAL

Your ceremony begins with the entrance of the wedding party. Normally, the ushers lead the procession, followed by the bridesmaids, maid of honor, the ring bearer, and the flower girl. The music "...should have a clearly audible cadence so that it is easy for you and your attendants to keep time while walking."[2]. The music begins softly, and gradually increases in volume until the bride's entrance. If the same selection is also used for the bride's entrance, there must me a noticeable increase in volume when she is ready to enter.

The haunting melody and driving rhythm (cello combined with violin playing pizzicato) of Pachelbel's Canon have made it a very popular Processional piece.

Recommendations:

  • Canon in D Major (Pachelbel)
  • Air on a G String (Bach)


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